TEN ADVICE FROM POPE FRANCIS

Ten advice from Pope Francis for All Couples
Undergo a serious relationship is often not as easy as it looks.
1. Take your time, even if you are very busy. Love takes time and place, all outside of it could come second. The time it takes to talk about various things, enjoy time together, plan to live, listen to each other, and look at your partner in their eyes. Sometimes problems are not a couple, they just never enjoy time together.
2. Listen, sometimes people just want to be heard. Your spouse may not need a solution, they just want to share grief, despair, fear, anger, and the fragility of their current conditions.
3. Accept shortage, we must understand that everyone has good and bad of each. Love does not have to be perfect, but we have to accept any deficiency partner and respect that every human being must not have errors.
4. Do not sleep with your anger, do not ever put an end to your day with anger. Always covered, your family with peace. How to? Very easy. You can start with a hug. Sometimes we do not need a word, a hug just to finish a fight.
5. Always say 'please', 'thank you' and 'sorry'. These three words may sound very ordinary but has a remarkable effect when spoken to a couple.
6. Trust is the key, we do not need to always be suspicious of the pair had been lying or cheating. Love is not about controlling partner and suspect every move. Precisely love can only grow when we give a sense of trust and liberate our partners. With confidence that the relationship can grow.
7. Love takes struggle, never expect a perfect love story. Love takes struggle and sacrifice. As the proverb that says 'fine wine matures with age', the more you fight and sacrifice for your relationship, then the relationship will be more mature and better over time.
8. Different opinions may be, do not hurt, each partner must have a different opinion, the key is that you should not meyakiti and angry. Most couples disagree about little things, so do not let the little things that make you and your partner feel uncomfortable or upset.
9. Read the book and added knowledge, be interesting. In talking with the couple, lest we become bored. Try to always learn and gain knowledge. So in talking with your spouse will always learn and gain knowledge.

10. Satisfy couples, For couples who are married, God created sex. Having sex with a partner should be satisfactory for both sides. Let us not seek self-gratification and objectify couples. Sex will be the most beautiful experience when both sides enjoyed it.